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The Rabbit Sign
THE RABBIT PERSONALITY A person born in the
year of the Rabbit possesses one of the most fortunate of the twelve animal
signs. The Rabbit, or Hare as he is referred to in Chinese mythology, is the
emblem of longevity and is said to derive his essence from the Moon.
When a Westerner gazes at the Moon, he may joke that it is a ball of cheese or
tell a child the story of the Man on the Moon. When a Chinese looks at the same
Moon, he sees the Moon Hare standing near a rock under a Cassia tree and holding
the Elixir of Immortality in his hands.
During the Chinese mid-Autumn festival when the Moon is supposed to be at its
loveliest, children in China still carry lighted paper lanterns made in the
image of a Rabbit and climb the hills to observe the Moon and admire the Moon
Hare.
The Rabbit symbolizes graciousness, good manners, sound counsel, kindness and
sensitivity to beauty. His soft speech and graceful and nimble ways embody all
the desirable traits of a successful diplomat or seasoned politician.
Likewise, a person born under this sign will lead a tranquil life, enjoying
peace, quiet and a congenial environment. He is reserved and artistic and
possesses good judgment. His thoroughness will also make him a good scholar. He
will shine in the fields of law, politics and government.
But he is also inclined to be moody; at such times he appears detached from his
environment or indifferent to people.
The Rabbit is extremely lucky in business and monetary transactions. Astute at
striking bargains, he can always pop up with a suitable proposal or alternative
to benefit himself. His sharp business acumen, coupled with his knack for
negotiation, will ensure him a fast rise in any career.
Although the Rabbit may assume an outer air of indifference to the opinions of
others, he actually withers under criticism. His "rather switch than
fight" technique can be deceiving and he can be diabolically cunning when
he puts his mind to it. So while the Rabbit person is tender and obliging to his
loved ones, he can be superficial and even ruthless in his dealings with
outsiders. Suave and self-indulgent, he enjoys his creature comforts and likes
to put his own wishes first. It irks him terribly to be inconvenienced for he is
a considerate, modest and thoughtful person and he would like others to be the
same. He sincerely believes it costs people nothing to be nice to each other and
he will always make an effort to be civil, even to his worst enemy. He abhors
brawling and any sort of overt animosity.
For all his quiet and misleading docile nature, a Rabbit person possesses a
strong will and an almost narcissistic self-assurance. He pursues his objectives
with methodical precision but always in an unobtrusive manner. If there is
anything he isn't going to be accused of, it is that he is an obvious or
thick-skinned person. He won't make waves. The special trait that makes the
Rabbit person a formidable negotiator is his inscrutability. It is difficult
ever to assess his thoughts correctly.
The Rabbit usually has impeccable manners. He seldom uses harsh words and will
never resort to foul language or vulgarism to bring home a point. There is
little need to anyway, as he has his own techniques. The Rabbit could hide under
this thick cloak of decency to undermine his opponents. His credentials are
usually flawless or at least in good order. He will wine and dine you in the
best places and cater to your every whim when he is after something. Then, when
you have eaten your fill and are puffing away contentedly at that expensive
cigar, he will pull out a contract for you to sign. Before you know it, he has
cut you off at the knees. He is so deft, you didn't even feel any pain. It was
all over with the stroke of a pen. My sympathies are with you, friend. You are
just another victim of the incomparable Hare. Now do you understand why Bugs
Bunny always gets his carrots in all those cartoon strips?
The Rabbit may appear a bit slow or overly deliberate at times, but this is due
to his inborn sense of caution and discretion. One can be sure he is going to
read the fine print before signing any document. Because of his ability to
assess people and situations, the Rabbit can afford to be conceited - which, by
the way, he is.
The demure Ms. Rabbit is very considerate and understanding with her friends: a
great gal to work with, shop with or just tell stories with. She is delightfully
warm and witty and her company is always relaxing. She has a lot of energy for
the things she likes to do and can tirelessly track down antique shops and plan
a friend's wedding to the last detail. but when she feels she has had enough of
all that rigmarole, well, you can expect her to drop whatever she is doing, prop
up her dainty feet and go all limp. That is the philosophical part of the
Rabbit. Do you know why she can keep so serene with all that frantic action
going on? The secret is to know when your batteries need recharging, and no one
has a better knowledge of timing on this than the Rabbit.
While everyone is killing himself in a mad rush to get somewhere, the Rabbit
knows that the world will still be here tomorrow. So, what's the big hurry? Why
don't you sit down, too? She will probably make you a nice cup of tea and help
you forget all about that crazy rat race outside.
In any situation, you can always rely on the Rabbit to be in control of herself.
She will notice the license number of the getaway car or remember that the
driver was wearing blue-colored jeans or training shoes. And while you are at
the police station filing that report, she will calmly recall all the details
and help you answer all those irritating questions.
All in all, the Rabbit is one who really knows how to live. What's more, he or
she is more than willing to let live. Not a spoilsport or disciplinarian with an
ever-watchful eye, the Rabbit knows when to refrain from criticism. He never
likes to embarrass anyone in public. He is adept at the art of saving face, both
yours and his, and if there is any way he can spare your feelings, he will.
Have no doubt - he makes mental notes of your mistakes or progress. But if
things are not serious beyond redemption, he will good-heartedly let you pass.
For this trait, he is well-liked and popular. An advantage of this philosophy is
that the Rabbit makes few enemies and thus rarely gets into trouble. People
respond by being generous to him and letting him pass, too.
No one has a more sympathetic ear to lend you than the Rabbit (except the Sheep)
should you need one. But while he is an excellent soother and compassionate
listener, he will only take the role of a passive advisor. He is, above all, an
intellectual, a realist and pacifist. Do not expect him to go out with all
colors flying and do battle for you. That would be asking too much of him. Let's
face it, the Rabbit will never elect to trudge up Mount Calvary with you, no
matter what great buddies you two claim to be. He'll lend you the money for the
lawyer or bail you out of jail if he can afford it, but that's about all. And if
you are getting to be too much of a nuisance, you can count on his making a
quick and graceful exit from your life.
The comely and refined Miss Rabbit will not be adverse to marrying a good
old-fashioned millionaire instead of a handsome but penniless swain. The former
will provide her with the advantages and luxuries she demands as necessities.
Her man must be powerful enough to protect and support her in style, and
sensitive enough to politely disappear when she is in a sullen mood and wishes
to remain undisturbed.
When given the choice, the Rabbit will vote for the easy and good life every
time. He or she will wear top-designer clothing. Cashmere sweaters, pure silk
blouses and durable linens and tweeds. A mink or chinchilla carelessly thrown
over the shoulder in a calculated air of nonchalance could also identify the
elegant Rabbit native. Flashy, geometric or shocking designs offend the Rabbit's
sense of conformity and balance.
While gracious to friends and co-workers, the Rabbit person may be somewhat
distant from his own family or simply bored by domestic routine and duties. He
or she hates too close associations; he will shake off an encroachment on his
privacy or clinging parasitic friends with no regret. He can be bureaucratic and
hedgy over difficult issues. As he is one who hates binding commitments or over involvement,
he can also be an expert at passing the buck.
Mr. Rabbit is singularly debonair. He moves with grace, charm and
gentlemanliness, in spite of the fact that while he was singing your praises, he
was also drinking your best wine. Yes, the Rabbit gravitates toward the cream of
society and gentlemanly leisure. On second though, the cream of high society
could well be made up of poised and genial Hares.
The Rabbit is not at all easy to trap. He can also become very repressive in his
predilection for secrecy and privacy. When the Rabbit person feels threatened,
his subtle brooding or concealed antagonism could be expressed by the use of
subversive tactics. Joseph Stalin and Fidel Castro are Rabbits.
For all his positive qualities, a native of this sign will still value himself
above all else. When pushed too far, he will discard anything or anyone who
dares upset the calm of his existence. His beliefs are known to be flexible and
he has the knack of playing both sides for insurance. Security could be an
obsession to the weaker types of this specimen; you rarely find a Rabbit in
areas of high risk.
This love of ease coupled with distaste for conflict may give the Rabbit a
reputation for being weak, opportunistic and self-indulgent. Unlike the Dragon,
Dog, Tiger, or Rooster, who all enjoy a hearty fight now and then, and may even
thrive on it, the Rabbit has no relish for combat. He was not born to be a
warrior. He is more effective working behind the scenes. Do not be concerned
about the Rabbit's well-being. He is agile and sagacious and armed with the good
sense to keep out of harm's way. Unlike other signs, who may pursue lofty
ideals, the Rabbit's main objective in life is simply self-preservation.
The Rabbit year is said to bring peace or at least a respite from conflict or
war. Likewise, its native will do everything in his power to restore harmony or
he will leave the scene.
The Rabbit person makes a good entertainer and is a wonderful host. Pleasant and
warm company, he has a good word to say of everyone. But don't let that fool
you. He knows more than he will say and you can easily recognize him by his
finesse. He will be the best of friends so long as you take care not to ask too
much of him.
The well-groomed Rabbit is most compatible with those born in the Sheep year.
They will share the same good taste and love of material comforts. Equally well
suited will be a relationship with the Dog person or the honest, unimposing Boar
native. The Rat, Dragon, Monkey, Ox, Snake and Rabbit will make good secondary
matches for him. But he will not be able to tolerate the vanity or criticism of
the Rooster, is unimpressed by the dramatics of the Tiger and unappreciative of
the quick-tempered and mercurial ways of the Horse.
To sum it up, the Hare simply leaps over obstacles in his path and recovers from
calamities with remarkable resilience. No matter how he is tossed, he lands on
his feet. He may not be close to his family but will make every effort to
provide them with the best of everything. His soft, vulnerable-looking exterior
is protected by an armor of cautiousness and sagacity. In life, the Rabbit will
avoid being drawn into conflict at any cost, unless, of course, it affects him
directly, at which time he will take the appropriate measures to protect his
interest. There is no great inner struggle in the Rabbit's heart between the forces of good and evil. He believes in his own ability to survive, relies on his own judgment and is at peace with himself. His is the sign most apt to find happiness and contentment. Click here to find out more about my element: Wood!
THE RABBIT CHILD
A child born in the Rabbit's year will have a sweet disposition. Even-tempered
and obedient, he will be sensitive to the moods of his parents and act
accordingly. He may or may not be talkative, but he won't be rowdy or offensive.
He can sit quietly and concentrate on one toy or game at a time.
Usually he is a light sleeper and may fret a lot when he is sick. He will be
easy to discipline and should have little trouble fitting in at school. He
learns his lessons well and with ease. But although he has better than average
manners, this does not mean he will not be argumentative in his own-spoken way.
He can grasp both sides of a question quickly and debate at this point with
intelligence.
At times, it will be difficult to decipher his thoughts or deeds. Smooth at
masking his feelings, the Rabbit will only say what he knows will please you and
thus maneuver you to his way of thinking without you even noticing it.
He will be able to fend for himself and protect his possessions. Remarkably
observant, he can calculate his chances for getting his way. Instead of directly
resisting rules, the subtle Rabbit will carefully devise ways around them. In
short, this polite little angel is going to bargain for a better deal every
time. He can take reproach with a defiant or philosophical sort of indifference. Shrugging off his setbacks, the Rabbit will patiently start again from square one. Helpful at home, conforming at school and well-tuned to his environment, this child will know his way around people and problems. Rest assured he will be well-liked and accepted in all circles. |
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